Family relationship update

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(background)

My father's previous wife had forced my mother to owe 3M yen of debt and to care for her daughter 25 years ago when my mother had been either pregnant or I had been within 3 months old; my father had never helped my mother then.

My father's family, as well as those woman and daughter, had gave my mother nasty treatments.

My mother had got mental disease because of those nasty people.

My father's mother died at 89 last November.

(Update of today)
My father had been to where he had got born since two days ago to bury his mother.

My mother had found out that those woman and daughter had attended to the event through that woman's Threads account this morning.

My mother ordered me to phone my father; he pretended as if they had not been here, but when I said her post he clarified that they had attended last November's funeral too.

My mother ordered me to phone my father's previous wife's daughter; she said they were there because they wanted to inherit my father's mother's house.

Asked her to never meet us; she said she won't because she hated us.

My mother had got upset.

Recorded their words.

[~JBG~]

I'm sorry to hear, sounds like a rough situation

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I'm sorry to hear, sounds like a rough situation

Thanks for saying so but I don't like your reply; what everyone on the internet can do is just say you're sorry to hear my OP; no one can actually visit my house or them irl to improve the issues. Additionally since I had got banned Discord servers for 37 times I have no really ideas who to ask for help. I am also considering to run a website to describe what my father, his mother and brother, and his previous wife and their daughter had done to ruin my mother's life by publishing their actual names and photos and something else; but why had my mother and I had to experience that? Why are they valuables that stories of people who had suffered from the WWII or earthquake and some disasters are; while are not my mother's experiences? As my father's mother had died last year there's no way to revenge them. My mother still have to suffer from things that has been happening since 1999 or 2000 and I really hate this fact. Many Japanese internet people don't want to listen to my mother's experiences therefore I am throwing some curse words to them.

[~JBG~]

Thanks for saying so but I don't like your reply; what everyone on the internet can do is just say you're sorry to hear my OP; no one can actually visit my house or them irl to improve the issues. Additionally since I had got banned Discord servers for 37 times I have no really ideas who to ask for help. I am also considering to run a website to describe what my father, his mother and brother, and his previous wife and their daughter had done to ruin my mother's life by publishing their actual names and photos and something else; but why had my mother and I had to experience that? Why are they valuables that stories of people who had suffered from the WWII or earthquake and some disasters are; while are not my mother's experiences? As my father's mother had died last year there's no way to revenge them. My mother still have to suffer from things that has been happening since 1999 or 2000 and I really hate this fact. Many Japanese internet people don't want to listen to my mother's experiences therefore I am throwing some curse words to them.

Yeah I can see how it's frustrating to get the same response from people online repeatedly.
I'm not sure how people online would be able to help out your current situation though.

Some of my friends have started their own personal blog websites where they talk about their life, family history and problems as an outlet to vent into the void with no real reason other than to get it out there. (most of them only sharing the sites to close friends)
Regarding posting peoples actual identities and photos online you might have to check your local laws about stuff like that since it can backfire greatly depending on whichever privacy laws are in effect.

Has your mother looked into getting help from mental healthcare professionals regarding her experiences and problems?

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Has your mother looked into getting help from mental healthcare professionals regarding her experiences and problems?

The caseworkers on the hospital and I are the only people she can get help.

My mother has been cursing my father's previous wife and her daughter so that she wants to murder them (actually not doing because it's a crime); my mother has been frustrated these days because of those two people had been rude to her.

My father's previous wife's daughter had a rude attitude to us as well as her mother had been; as well as how her accents were. Sounded annoying to my mother.

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(most of them only sharing the sites to close friends)

My mother and I have no friends irl therefore I am thinking of making as many people as possible (including whoever random people) know our situation; while my mother, who had suffered from her experiences the most, is against this opinion.

[~JBG~]

The caseworkers on the hospital and I are the only people she can get help.

ok it's good that there are at least some people at the hospital that are trying to help out.

My mother and I have no friends irl therefore I am thinking of making as many people as possible (including whoever random people) know our situation; while my mother, who had suffered from her experiences the most, is against this opinion.

I understand that you want everyone to know about the treatment your mother has faced but if she's against the idea of this being publicized to everyone it might be better to listen to her so you don't do something that'll upset her

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I have a news as of May 13: I have found out that my father had been communicating with his wife and her daughter since his father had died last November; this is for him to discuss them the inheritance of his mother's assets; since not only I but also that woman's daughter is his child, she also has the rights to get inherit as well as I have.

Obtw my father's big brother has been in need of supports because he has been suffering a stroke since 2013 (or 2014? 2012?) and he cannot talk, nor can be walk (I think); my mother and I are not sorry to him because we know he had been rude to us for several years.

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I understand that you want everyone to know about the treatment your mother has faced but if she's against the idea of this being publicized to everyone it might be better to listen to her so you don't do something that'll upset her

Writing something more exact: I am not sure whether she wants to let everyone know her circumstances, but she and I have no friends to tell the actual story irl nor online; I don't think this is good to have no friends therefore I had been trying to make as many random people as possible know the issues; it had been a tough thing.

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No matter how much we blame those two people and my father and his mother and brother, he does never admit their sins nor what they had done bad to us; in worst, when I say something bad to him, he blames my mother (not me); this is unacceptable. Furthermore my mother has been warning me that I (in addition to he and his family people) am worsening her condition; this is unacceptable. Although my parents had got broken up in 2019 we, three people, are on the same place because I hadn't got any other jobs.

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(UPDATE)
My mother has decided to give up improving (or not worsening) her condition so she would drink alcohol to make herself never think of awful treatments by my father and his (former) family people and awful circumstances as of now.

She doesn't have a job therefore my father has threatened her by saying that she would have no income things for many times.

The hospital people have no ways to improve her life.

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The hotline is useless; could not even phone at all.

[~JBG~]

Furthermore my mother has been warning me that I (in addition to he and his family people) am worsening her condition; this is unacceptable.

Perhaps it's better for you to avoid instigating more drama if it's affecting your mother negatively.

(UPDATE)
My mother has decided to give up improving (or not worsening) her condition so she would drink alcohol to make herself never think of awful treatments by my father and his (former) family people and awful circumstances as of now.

The hospital people have no ways to improve her life.

That's not too good, how come the hospital can't help out more?