14th March 2021, 5:16 PM
(13th March 2021, 7:36 AM)Lambdadelta Wrote: The past week or two has been pretty mixed for me overall. Had to come to an acceptance somewhat recently in terms of a friendship I had with someone not really working out, which has had me pretty downbeat since I put a lot of effort into said friendship and took it seriously. However there was a lot of dishonesty on their side, and just a general lack of care for anything I said or felt. This went on for a few months and I looked past it and tolerated it, but eventually just hit my limit and I had to sever my ties with them which was tough for me to do.
On the flip-side, I can actually start moving on from it now, and the whole situation gave me an opportunity to focus on my relationships with 2 good friends of mine more (that I realized I hadn't really put enough time into lately), which has been nice especially within the past few days; it has helped to keep my mood relatively okay and the incident that happened has also made me appreciate more the friendships I do have, the ones that are actually genuine.
I'm sorry that your friendship with said person is coming to an end... those are always the worst. But, I believe those people maybe weren't really the best people in your life??? Just my experiences, and sounds like this said person isn't really much of a good friend. I'm sure everyone here would *love* to be your friend <3
Those 2 good friends of yours (I'm sure) have your back through it all and will support you no matter what. You can always reach out to me if you need someone to talk to.
