23rd March 2023, 9:32 PM
(23rd March 2023, 5:33 PM)Different Wrote: If all my methods that don't involve hitting a child, doesn't work, then unfortunately that's a line that I'm going to have to cross. Even though I don't necessarily agree with doing so, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. People respond to authenticity and outcomes.Β
If you don't agree with doing it why then do it at all? I honestly don't understand the logic here.
You can get professional help before you resort to abusing your child.
You can get a social worker involved, you can get a therapist involved to see what is the root cause of the problem.
Quote:So, if the outcome becomes successful, then stick with it. There's some children that need it, and some that don't, from what I've seen. If you raise your child properly, then it's not necessary. But, some kids are bad apples at birth.
Ah yes, if my child stops acting out when I beat them up then I shall continue doing so because it works.Β
What kind of ****ed up message are you sending to your kid by these actions.
No kid should be hit by their parent it's a ****ed up thing to do, you want your child to fear and resent you? God forbid that your kid ends up in a bad situation and they are afraid of confiding in you about it because they are afraid of getting beat for it.Β
Quote:Your son decides to get violent with you and slap you. You can't tell me you wouldn't deal with his ass. But, like I said, bro... I would try other, nonviolent methods, first, depending on the child.
If I had a child and they'd slap me I wouldn't slap them back no.