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4th September 2024, 11:14 AM
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You’ve all been in that devastating situation before, where you’ve done something really imbecilic and you’ve felt embarrassed about it. Real friends will lend a hand out to you and give you words of encouragement. Backstabbers will take advantage of the situation and find humor in your mistakes. Then if that’s not enough, they’ll figure out a way to sabotage you and post it on X or something.
Some embarrassing things in life that you do, may end up following you forever. You know how it is when you’re constantly feeling like a TARGET for open shots wherever you go. You could be in the gym, at the airport, or even at a coffee shop and people will still laugh at you reminding you of what you did. Everyone saw the clip on YouTube, it went viral, and the entire world is just mocking you. Why me?… Why always me? Every single time, bro. You just can’t help but become accident prone and embarrass yourself. It could even be a family dinner and you accidentally belch across the table.
I know you’ve all heard your parents say, “you’re a disgrace to this family!” But the question is, how do you bounce back from embarrassment, especially when it haunts you for life?
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4th September 2024, 10:26 PM
It depends on if the embarrassment is deserved or not. If it isn't deserved, my advice is to not worry about what other people think. Move on from it as best as you can, because if you dwell on it, the others will dwell on it, too.
If it is deserved, then my advice would be to apologize, and if you can't, then write an open letter. It'll help some of the sheer embarrassment go away.
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5th September 2024, 8:31 AM
(4th September 2024, 10:26 PM)Minimania Wrote: It depends on if the embarrassment is deserved or not. If it isn't deserved, my advice is to not worry about what other people think. Move on from it as best as you can, because if you dwell on it, the others will dwell on it, too.
If it is deserved, then my advice would be to apologize, and if you can't, then write an open letter. It'll help some of the sheer embarrassment go away.
That’s good advice because some people don’t take it too well, and they let it affect them for life. But I guarantee you that no one on this site will even bother to publicly share any past experiences that they’ve had when they were embarrassed.
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6th September 2024, 1:13 AM
(5th September 2024, 8:31 AM)Different Wrote: That’s good advice because some people don’t take it too well, and they let it affect them for life. But I guarantee you that no one on this site will even bother to publicly share any past experiences that they’ve had when they were embarrassed.
I just made a blog post that is me doing exactly that. You don't have to read it though
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(6th September 2024, 1:13 AM)Minimania Wrote: I just made a blog post that is me doing exactly that. You don't have to read it though
I took the time to read it. I do agree that being evil does come with karma because as you know, God is always watching us. There are just some people who get away with so many things in this world, and when their day finally comes, it’s like a moment of relieve. Props to you for stating it publicly, though. It takes a lot of guts to come clean about something. On the other hand, take Suge Knight for example. He has a reputation for being the “Boogeyman” in hip hop.